Sunday, February 24, 2013

The Toad’s Tears


One day, a Dragon King held a banquet, inviting every imaginable fish there was.  They all gathered in his palace and ate and drank until they were full.  Everyone was having such a good time until something happened.  There was a drunken hair-tail fish was swimming here and there, swinging its tail, and he accidently hit the King in the eye, blinding him.

The King was furious.  “Bring before me every fish with a tail immediately,” he ordered the crab and the lobster.

The sudden change in the mood of the party frightened everyone and they ran away.  The crab and lobster searched and searched for the fish with a tail, but they failed to find even a single one.
Feeling very foolish, the crab and lobster went ashore in search of the fish.  Finally, they came across a ditch between two rich fields.  They heard someone crying, so they followed the sound and found a big toad.

“Why are you crying so sadly?” the crab and lobster asked the toad.

“Is it true that the Dragon King ordered every fish with a tail to be brought before him?”

“Yes, that is true.  But what’s the matter with you?  You don’t have to worry.  You don’t even have a tail.”

“Of course, I do not have a tail, but it reminds me of the time when I was a tadpole.”


Today is Chap go meh, the last day of CNY, 15th day of the first lunar month in 2013.  We got invited for the Lion Dance troupe and breakfast in the corner restaurant of Putra Heights.  It supposed to start at 9am, so we went before 8.30am…in my usual Korean time psyche…But it started in 10 am!!!  Malaysian time psyche…after all these years, I am still not getting used to this huge time-gap between two countries… 

Anyway, we had a good, loud crackers’ explosion plus very colorful lion dance plus…simple Chinese foods and roast goat (instead of roast pork, because afraid to offend the earth god of the restaurant, who could be Muslim or Chinese…, that’s the explanation I heard…) But, I partook some oranges only.  After seeing all those crackers busting all over around the foods on the ground, though they are covered by banana leaves…I don't really feel like eating them…

After that, I went to the Korean temple in Ampang.  Their prayer starts at 10am and it is 40 minutes drives if no traffic.  Luckily the road was clear all the way to allow me 90 km/hr speed… still arriving barely before their prayer finish... At least I could enjoy their Korean vegetarian Chap go meh dishes and catching-up-chats with the temple friends.  Since I move to Putra Heights in January 2008, it’s not easy to go over their temple now.  Of course I wasn’t regular even before that.  Out of blue moon…I will drop by over there, like once every year or two…but whenever I go there, I get to release some of my homesickness.  

It’s already my 16th year in Malaysia…and it was the first time in 21 year (added my US years) that I got to eat Korean-Chap-go-meh food!!! Our food of the day is a-5 grains rice and 5 kinds dried vegetables, traditional rice cakes and fruits…and it was very nice and happy meal though so much simpler in looking and taste than Chinese dishes.

Today, I felt like the toad of the story remembering my tadpole days…there was no King looking for the fish with a tail, nor I was crying with the sadness.  But then, after all these years…I am still finding the Korean foods suit me better over the Chinese foods…I guess no matter how much I look like a Chinese in my outlook by now, my inside is still very much a Korean, so is my English with Korean accent.

Anyway since the long Chinese New Year celebrations is finally over now, I wonder whether I could expect familiar faces returning to the Yoga studio…to lose all the extra pounds from the CNY…